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SO, WHEN I WAS IN GRAD SCHOOL I TOOK A RESEARCH CLASS. I HAD TO WRITE A PAPER FOCUSING ON PHENOMENOLOGICAL RESEARCH STUDIES...STUDIES ON A PERSON'S "LIVED EXPERIENCE" OF A PARTICULAR PHENOMENON. WHILE WORKING ON THIS PAPER (OR I GUESS NOT WORKING ON THIS PAPER), I THOUGHT TO MYSELF...MAYBE I SHOULD SHARE MY OWN EXPERIENCES:*** LIVING IN NASHVILLE, TN...SINGLE...FEMALE...MID 20S...KINDA ARTSY...RATHER NERDY...IN GRAD SCHOOL...WORKS AS A REGISTERED NURSE...LIKES MEETING PEOPLE...LIKES GOING TO INTERESTING/NEW PLACES...GENERALLY OPTIMISTIC...MAYBE A LITTLE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE*** BLOG = THE QUINTESSENTIAL, (VOCAB WORD!) FUN WAY TO ARCHIVE MY RANDOM THOUGHTS AND DOCUMENT MY ADVENTURES...OR MAYBE I JUST NEED A CHANGE OF SCENERY FROM FB AND TWITTER HA! **Peace,Love,&Happiness!**

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Yes, I am Single..."Stop judging my uterus!" -Jon Acuff

Someone asked me a question recently....why are you single??? I have a few theories.

Theory 1: Maybe I should stop watching movies
Relationships don't happen like they do in movies. But I can't get the fairy tale notion out of my head! Grand gestures...can someone please show me a grand gesture! You know...like waiting for me at my door step for hours in the rain to tell me you can't live your life without me....wait, that actually sounds kinda stalker-esque...please don't do that. Why am I seeking relationship advice from movies anyway...smh



Theory 2: Murphy doesn't want me to be happy
I believe in chemistry! Chemistry, chemistry, chemistry! Molecules, atoms, ions...I want the spark! I know it exists. But why do my sparks come at the wrong time!! It's called Murphy's Law! When I want someone to call...they don't. When I don't want someone to call...they do. Why can't Murphy and I get on the same page!

Theory 3: Independent woman ish
I could say I'm focusing on school and my career...or that I'm trying to work on getting to know me... lol those are all true, but isn't everyone doing those things?

I want a relationship and this vintage floral print desk chair from World Market...
...the desk chair is currently sitting in my living room LOL!

I think the bottom line is...things come in due time when we are ready for them. When I am ready for a relationship...The Relationship...it will come. Until then, I'll be impatiently waiting and enjoying my single life with my girls...while working, going to school and getting to know me...lol
***Peace,Love,&Happiness***


Enjoy a fitting throw back from J. Mayer and this unfitting, but totally awesome Kanye & Guests video because it is cool :-)





2 comments:

  1. LOL! You're a little comedian. Nice read and love the chair. I always think that I will find something fabulous like this at a yard sale or the thrift store. This has yet to happen...lol. Anyways being single is a choice, not a death sentence (to your uterus) like people assume.

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  2. Lol Well keep looking! I bought my vintage chair new, but I would have definitely preferred to spend less money....I just couldn't resist that chair! Glad you enjoyed my post...just my random thought that came to me. Being single is a choice, maybe even a subconscious choice, but people don't realize that...esp. down south where getting engaged is some type of rite of passage.

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